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In 2018, Deborah Copaken listed “30 simple shared truths” she learned at her 30th Harvard reunion. Among them:
- “No one’s life turned out exactly as anticipated, not even for the most ardent planner.”
- “Nearly all the alumni said they were embarrassed by their younger selves, particularly by how judgmental they used to be.”
- “We have all become far more generous with our I love you’s. They flew freely at the reunion. We don’t ration them out to only our intimates now, it seems; we have expanded our understanding of what love is, making room for long-lost friends.”
Spend some time with Copaken’s list this weekend. It’s a lovely compilation of shared truths about being human, but it’s also a reminder of the powerful bonds college-age young adults are capable of forming—and the interesting ways those bonds change over time.
Today’s reading list explores college reunions and graduations, and compiles advice for college students on the precipice of post-graduate life.
On Graduation
What I Learned About Life at My 30th College Reunion
By Deborah Copaken
“Every classmate who became a teacher or doctor seemed happy,” and 29 other lessons from seeing my Harvard class of 1988 all grown up
Dear Graduates, I Failed and Failed Until Something Worked
By Katie Herzog
Precariousness is a fact of life, especially now. (From 2020)
The Only Career Advice You’ll Ever Need
By Arthur C. Brooks
The contentment of being true to yourself comes through doing good work, and doing it with love.
Still Curious?
Other Diversions
P.S.
I recently asked readers to share a photo of something that sparks their sense of awe in the world. “As my mother and I were at [the] Dairy Queen drive-through in Fort Myers, Florida, this fellow jumped on the hood of our car,” Zandra J., 46, in Stillwater, Minnesota, wrote. “He apparently wanted to say, ‘Look at me!’ Or perhaps ‘You’re not going anywhere until I get a bite!’”
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